Pre-marital Issues

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Recently, citizens in Guang Zhou seem to be doing the same thing, the thing which they do keeps reiterate itself daily, and it benefits the hospitals and other health care centers. What are they doing you wonder?

Well, those folks are just making confirmations about their heredity. And the individuals who engaged in such activity are all couples. It's a norm if you see the person who plays as the girl acquire a little life within her tummy, and to top it all, news revealed that 8 out of 10 couples discovered that after they have checked the DNA of their child, it seems that the current boyfriend/husband is not the real father to that child!

This inclination seems to be deteriorating for now, and it worries the whole globe currently. A series of interviews had been carried out within our community and many different views for ponder have been voiced out by our very own Malaysians.

For some who are said to be "possessed by the devilish spirits", would probably ask their girlfriend/wife to sign some procedures in order to start an operation under the knife, and eventually abandon the females as if they are mere old junk or clothes.

For some who have merciful hearts, claimed that he would not mind treating that child as his own flesh as it's his wife/girlfriend the one he loves, so it does not really matter whether the child inherits his DNA.

For some who possess hearts like lions which are full of pride, stood firm on their grounds as relatively masculine individuals, disagree completely with the statement from those of merciful hearts, denying his girlfriend/wife directly as the incident seems to be a treachery and it is totally unfaithful. Cannot keep to the curb, Separation is the only answer.

For some who acquire some sort of love-can-overcome-everything-but-you-can-only-have-me ideology, would ask the girl to abandon the child along with her ex, and continue stay together with him, hoping so hard for an unseemingly happily ever after fairy-tale ending.

Correct, safe sex has been taught world wide. But now, come to think of it, what is the real intention of introducing safe sex procedures? What is the main reason behind before all the condoms and pills popped out in our communities? Sometimes we gotta trace back the roots of everything for an asnwer.

"Safe sex is the practice of sexual activity in a manner that reduces the risk of infection with sexually transmitted disease..."(Quoted from wikipedia) It is originally used to prevent deadly diseases such as AIDS. But nowadays, the practice is used for the sake of a rapid sense of joy as well as for the sake of pregnancy prevention, which renders people misused the concept and started doing things wildly, without any rationality in their heads. Now, one would often think that sexual activities engagement for a pre-married couple is a MUST, otherwise the relationship won't be able to last long due to bummers and boredom... Tell you what, that's exactly the main reason why a relationship never last an eternity or longer than it should.

But nevertheless, for whoever, especially female readers who are reading this, I hereby sincerely apologize to all of you on behalf of all men in nature. Males, at times would often unable to deny certain temptations, and so, in certain moments, we might have done damages which are unforgivable, we sincerely hope to change that in many ways, and undo all the wrongdoings we tend to commit. There are still many good men out there.

But girls, we could not take things for granted... basically in every situation. Take a look at these cases, those suffered are all females, the lions could just make a mild decision and walk away from you if something does happen, all they usually do is waving hands at you, bidding "bye bye" to you, without sharing any burdens, without carrying the troubles, eventually, it's the girls who cry at the corner every other night. Indeed, the practice of safe sex is not 100% safe. Do not allow the oppositions take advantage on you before marriage, even though that person is destined to be the love of your life. I'm not preaching in the perspective of religion or whatsoever. But this negative inclination is getting as serious as the current financial slump, and it proves to be so true on why pre-marital over-intimacy activities are banned in the eyes of many human.

Does a sudden upsurge of your bloodstream overnight worth for the possible eternal scar which breaks your heart forever? You be the judge.

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